This is first time doing something like this. I don't have any/much experience. Is that okay? Absolutely! Many of the folks I play with are either brand spankin new to BDSM, have only played a few times and/or have never seen a Professional Dominatrix before. And that's totally natural. We all have to start somewhere. So why not get things off to a good start by playing with someone who knows what she's doing, obviously enjoys it and won't judge you for wanting to explore your kinky side. What should I expect in a session? You should expect to have a good time and to learn something new about yourself and what turns you on. I don't offer "one size fits all" sessions nor do I contract for any specific activity. I offer BDSM sessions but I don't know what our time will entail until we've had our pre-session chat on the day of your appointment. I explain this more fully on my Games page. How do I schedule an appointment? Once you have read over this website, and you have a date/time in mind, you simply need to call me from an unblocked number. Preferably one that you will be reachable at on the day you would like to schedule. You can find my phone number, my email link, and details on scheduling on the Contact Page. But read over this page first. Do I have to call? Do you really need my phone number? Yes. Most women in the industry require some form of reference before they will schedule with you. I don't require references from other providers nor do I require a work number that I can call and check. I'm not even too particular on whether you give me your last name or not. By industry standards I'm pretty low maintenience in this area. But I do require that you call me when you are ready to schedule your appointment and I will need a way to reach you on the day of your appointment. Most folks find a cell phone works pretty darn well for this. How much notice do I need to give you? What I advise is giving me a call with as much notice as you can. I require a bare minimum of 24 hours notice, though that is often not enough. My life is usually booked up 4-5 days in advance. Can I see you today? No. Nope. No way. Never gonna happen. I do not do same day appointments. Not even if I have a cancelation(very rare). Not even on a day when I have nothing else planned(even more rare). Really? Yes really. And asking is likely to get a not so nice response because I address this issue four times on my website and in ALL of my advertising. Calling me up and asking for a same day appointment says that you either didn't read my website OR you think my rules don't apply to you. Both denote a type of individual I have no interest in playing with. But why? Short answer - because I don't want to. Long answer - when I have been more flexible on this it has invariably bit me on the ass. I am not an impulse purchase like gum. Think of me more as a dream vacation. Of course you would do all your research before reserving your adventure. And think of all the delicious anticipation as you watch the date of our time together approach. Allowing at least a few hours to decompress after your trip is also a good idea. What if I schedule a Session but then have to Cancel? I understand that conflicts can come up. Call me as soon as you know you have a conflict. As long as you have a legitamite reason for canceling, AND call me before I call you for our final day-of confirmation call, I will most likely be willing to give you a second chance and schedule with you again. But you will only get this option once so don't schedule an appointment unless you have every intention and ability to show up, baring unforeseen incident or emergency. Give it the same priority in your mind, and on your calendar, that you would a visit to any other medical professional. How much is a Session? Tribute* is 250 for a Standard Session, 200 for each additional hour. Do you accept credit cards/checks/money orders/diamonds/trade/services/etc.? Can I give you a gift in addition to the tribute? Well sure, but certainly not something that is necessary or expected. For those of you who are so inclined I've listed some lovely gift options on my Links page. There are also a number of places to buy flowers or wine in my neighborhood. My preference for flowers is anything red, orange, yellow or white. And in wines I enjoy Washington Riesling, California Red Zinfindel and Pinot Noir, and Spanish Rioja. How long does a Session usually last? For a Standard Session you should block out a window of two hours from the time you arrive till when you need to be walking out the door on the way to your next engagement. This will allow us time for pre-session conversation, play time, as well as after-care and clean-up. I am not a clock watcher and prefer that my guests can be just as casual. That said if you would like to have more than an hour or so of playtime please mention this when you schedule your appointment and adjust the tribute accordingly. This is my first time. Is a Standard Session okay? Yes of course. I might suggest folks schedule a longer session if they have a lot of activities they enjoy, which is often the case with more experienced players. Though there are plenty of people that feel a bit "kid in a candy store" their first time out and want to try as much as they can. Others just like the additional intensity of longer play. If you're somewhat unsure, maybe a half hour more is just enough to try a few more things without leaving you overwhelmed. But a Standard Session is still plenty of time to play if your schedule and/or budget is limited. Where are you located? My Play Space is in Seattle, Washington in one of the neighborhoods surrounding the downtown core. I'm basically a 10 minute cab ride from most downtown hotels. I'm also very easy to find from the airport, the Eastside, or any where else north or south on I-5. I can tell you roughly where you'll be going when you make your appointment and I give excellent directions. I get lost easy. Can you just come to me? Nope. I don't do outcall. There should be some fairly obvious security issues but it's also more practical for you to visit me. I simply have too much gear. I also find that being in a new, unconventional environment will help you get more out of our time together. Remember this is a vacation from the ordinary. What's your space like? What kind of equipment do you have? My space is in a mixed commercial and residential neighborhood. But security, running into other clients, and/or freaking out my neighbors is simply not an issue. The space is much more sensual than sadistic, the whole gothic dungeon thing is really not my style. Having a space full of bad-ass looking furniture would probably only freak out most of my clients. I much prefer being the scariest thing in the room. I have a simple bondage chair, a kneeling/spanking bench and a large, solid, four poster canopy bed that is very fun to tie people up to either standing, kneeling, or laying down. I love the look of a St. Andrews Cross but what I use now leaves so much more of the body exposed. I really like exposed flesh. I have a shower for clean up as well as water sports, a dressing area and wardrobe for feminization. And of course TOYS TOYS TOYS! How tall are you? Physically I am 5'2" with a curvy but athletic figure (34C-26-34). Personality wise I'm 6'2" and built like Xena the Warrior Princess. Which is not to say that I've never used my size(or lack there of) to my advantage. It amuses me no end when men think they will have the upper hand if they need it because they're "bigger" then me. Size doesn't really matter when one person is tied up and one isn't. I also work out a lot so I'm in better shape then most of my playmates.
What size shoe do you wear? I Wear a size 8 1/2 shoe and a size 9 boot, though I spend as much time as I can get away with barefoot. And one of the many blessings of yoga is that my feet are very flexible. They are also incredibly sensitive but not the slightest bit ticklish. The gentlest of touches will get a noise out of me...but it won't be a giggle. How many years experience do you have? I started actively exploring BDSM in the early 90's. I've been playing professionally since 2004. It's been a wild ride but I couldn't be happier with where my own kinky path has taken me. Do you ever travel? I do travel some, but for the time being I am only available for session in Seattle. You are still welcome to email me if you live on the West Coast. If I've seen you before I might be open to visiting your town, or adding time for you to an already planned visit. I travel fairly often to Portland Oregon and don't need much of an excuse to visit the Washington or Oregon coast, Bellingham or the San Juan Islands. I also love Vancouver BC but, with current border conditions, I'm not making any travel plans for Canada until things get better and/or I get my passport renewed. Do you play with couples? Yes. I very much enjoy playing with couples. However, though I do get calls for this from time to time, somehow they never seem to call me back after I say that the female partner must make the reservation. If you are male and call me to ask if I see couples, or to try to set up an appointment for you and your lady, I will simply tell you to have her call me. I don't care if she's the submissive in your relationship, or if she's shy, she has to make the call. No exceptions. Do you play with women? Hell yeah! But not as often as I would like. Unfortunately women are not as prone to call a professional. And before you call me to set something up for your reluctant girlfriend, boys, the rule for women is the same as for couples. Only a woman can make an appointment for play involving a woman. Can I session with you and another Dominant or another submissive? Possibly. But if I've never played with you before, this isn't an option I'll discuss with you outside of reserved session time. I do have other Dominant Ladies that are open to joining me in my fun from time to time. But you will need to prove yourself reliable and respectful before I'd even mention you to them. I also have a couple of Male Dominants and female submissives in my life. But all of those options are for folks I have been playing with for awhile, who I feel are ready and appropriate for that type of advance play. Do you offer overnight sessions? Much like my answer to the previous question, this is way too advanced a level of play to even bother talking about with someone I don't know yet. If you still like the idea after we've a had a normal length session followed by a couple of longer sessions then we'll talk. Can I be your personal submissive/pet/slut/toy/house-boy? No. I am lifestyle. I'm even open to having more personal submissives in my life. But if the only way you have of contacting me is through the information I have posted here on the internet, it's never going to happen. Hard truth, but truth none the less. And if you email me, or worse yet, call me to ask the above question I won't like you very much either. If you are someone I would be compatible with and are truly ready for an on-going D/s relationship, as opposed to some occasional pay for play(which is all that is being offered here), chances are that we will run into each other at some kink friendly event out in the real world. And then you'll have just as much of a chance as any other guy approaching a hot chick and trying to get her to like you. But contacting me thorough this site you have NO chance. But what if......? Stop right there. I shouldn't have to point this out but arguing with me over my rules is a very bad way to introduce yourself to any Dominant Female, let alone one you hope to win the interest of. Do you offer distance domination like phone or postal training? Not at the moment, and before someone emails me to ask, no I don't have any plans to do so in the near future. I'm just too much of a hands-on type person. I like to feel the reactions I cause in people. A telephone, or a web cam, just doesn't communicate enough for me. And as much as I love the written word, it has it's limits. Do You offer any videos for sale? Not at this time and not a direction I see myself heading. But my attitude about it is much the same as with photo shoots. I'm not the world's biggest fan of having my picture taken but if its an interesting project, and the folks involved are cool, I'm game. That's pretty much my attitude about most things. In the mean time satisfy yourself with the brand new, and completely free, Slide-show in my Gallery. *All
tribute is for my time and/or a "fantasy show" only. No offer
of any other service or activity is to be implied, insinuated or otherwise
agreed upon. Any attempt to connect the tribute to an illegal act will
result in immediate termination of communication. All interaction beyond
a "fantasy show" is between two or more consenting adults
and has nothing to do with any financial arrangement. By calling my
number, you are agreeing to the above terms.
Got a question?
It's probably answered here. Take a look at the following list before contacting me.
Still can't find the answer to your query? My email address is on the Contact page.
I'm new. Is that okay?
What should I expect in a session?
How do I schedule an appointment?
Do I have to call? Do you really need my phone number?
How much notice do I need to give you?
Can I see you today?
What if I schedule a Session but then have to Cancel?
How much is a Session?
Do you accept credit cards/checks/money orders/diamonds/trade/services/etc.?
Can I give you a gift in addition to the tribute?
How long does a Session usually last?
This is my first time. Is a Standard Session okay?
Where are you located?
Can you just come to me?
What's your space like? What kind of equipment do you have?
How tall are you?
What size shoe do you wear?
How many years experience do you have?
Do you ever travel?
Do you play with couples?
Do you play with women?
Can I session with you and another Dominant or another submissive?
Do you offer overnight Sessions?
Can I be your personal submissive/pet/slut/toy/house-boy?
Do you offer distance Domination like phone or postal training?
Do You offer any videos for sale?
Nope.
