First off... I'm a big ole' perv in a tiny little body. I was raised in a very open household and just never got the message that sexuality is dirty or wrong. There are few consensual activities that I've seen, read or heard of that truly made me say eww. Although almost all things kinky interest me that DOES NOT mean that I want to actively participate in all the kinky activities out there. When in doubt, just check the Games page.
I point this out to say that those secret fantasies and longings that you would never mention to your nearest and dearest won't likely blow my hair back. In fact they'll probably turn me on.
As to how this startling frame of mind came about here are a few rapid fire possibilities. I'm over 30. I have a BA in theater. I'm pansexual and polyamorous. I read as much porn and erotica as I can get my hot little hands on. I've even been known to write some. I'm Wiccan. I'm an incurable sensualist. My Mother is a kick-ass southern woman and a complete dirty old lady. I'm a Cancer but Leo is in my Venus house, so I can be very intuitive and emotional but I'm intensely alpha in my seduction style. And I live my life in the open, amidst a beautiful, talented and accepting group of pervy-in-their-own-way friends.
I find people, and their sexuality, infinitely fascinating. It is bar none my favorite topic of conversation. I like that the quantities of similarity and difference are pretty much equal once you've heard enough stories. And having heard the things I have, I don't really think I'm all that out there. I know many people who have the same feelings, fetishes and desires that I do. The only thing that seems to really mark us as different is the frequency with which we act on these feelings, how open we are about them and wether or not we honor and respect all of our sexual nature. BDSM has been a part of my sexuality and relationships, in one way or another, for most of my adult life. This isn't just what I do, its a large and loved part of who I am. As such, I see myself as something of an Ambassador for those who can't visit Kink-land as often as they might like. And I take my role very seriously...even when our time together is less than serious. We are here to have fun after all. But I will always strive to provide a safe, non-judgmental space, an embassy, where you can truly be yourself and explore without condemnation.
For what ever combination
of ingredients brought me to this place, it is seeing my playmates
blissed out by
reaching that hidden part of themselves, that keeps me